I feel like problems with family have to be kept behind closed doors. That's your peoples and these discussions can be extremely emotional/violent/all of that.
Aaron Rodgers might have the same kind of problems, and even though it's known that he doesn't fuck with his folks, he don't talk any of that shit and neither does his bitch.
Which brings up another problem: If your woman isn't scared of you on some level then she ain't no good to you (fear can also mean a whole lot of respect + appreciation to not be on that scandalous shit because it would make you, the man, look bad).
Every single drama-filled relationship I've seen has been at least in part due to the woman thinking that she can just be out there wildin out like a motherfucker without a care as to how this makes her man and the relationship look.
Aaron Rodgers ain't said shit to the media regarding his family beef and Olivia Munn knows better so she shuts the fuck up too.
From what I gather, Khan's wife is some glorified Instagram hoe, I mean, "model".
So his parents are mega religious and they apparently weren't down with all that shit. Look bitch, you done already came up in the game by getting married to dude with that money and fame so wouldn't it be smart and avoid confrontations with his family ?
Now what they allegedly did is pretty terrible if hands were put on the broad...but once again, the fuck is you thinking with this media bashing out in the open ? We already have too many Kardashians on this planet to begin with, hoe.
Khan needs to show his broad what time it is. His family needs to cool out. Khan needs to get the fuck out of England and move to California or some shit. He needs to stop playing promoter and just focus 200% on being a fighter.
Man that family/spouse mess can get out of hand rather quickly, and it's almost nothing you can do about it. I'm struggling with it as we speak. Khan seems to be the type that wants everybody to get along and he definitely doesn't seem like he wants to let his parents down....major flaws, in the grand scheme of things.
My brother has been the issue, as of late, my parents have always been cool with my fiance and what we're working towards. When me and my lady were dating, he was cool....until I started mentioning the idea of proposing to her sometime last March. Since then, anytime I mention something about her, he rolls his eyes and ignores me.
Whenever she comes by, he rolls his eyes and takes longer and longer to speak to her when she walks in the house. Of course this shit pisses me off, but she gives him the benefit of the doubt, saying that he probably feels left out because he doesn't have anybody. F that!
I had my engagement party a couple of weeks ago and was surprised he showed up....plus one. I had to talk to him a couple of times about RSVP'ing and told him that he could "plus one", since I noticed that he had a new chick around the house.
Anyway, he's been real dry with my lady and it's been pissing me off for the longest. This past Saturday, I walked in the house and he spoke to me. She walked in a couple of mins after me....dude didn't speak, WTF? He didn't speak to her until 30-40 mins later, AFTER she spoke to him when he came in from the garage. Smh
Later on, he had his chick over here, cool. They're laughing and talking LOUD, not a care in the world. I went out of my way to speak to his chick, not to mention that she walks through the front door and hooks a right and goes STRAIGHT to his room without speaking.
My lady was on the phone and heard him laughing and joking with his lady, which brought her to the inevitable point of anger and confusion...."Why does he mope and complain when I'm around, but as soon as he has company, he's happy all of a sudden? What did I ever do to him?" Great questions.
Now, I asked my brother before I proposed to her, whether he had any issues with her....with a dumb smirk on his face, he emphatically denied any problems....but has kept his bullshit up since then.
Do I confront him the way I want to? I'm being told (by my pops) to go out for a drink with him and try to let him "release". Release what? I'm not leaving my lady for him. What does he know about her that I don't? Is she a prostitute? Thief? Drug addict? Serial killer? What?
To this day, he'll deny having any issues with her, but he'll keep up the madness....and she's nothing but nice to him, I just don't get it. At this point, I'm ready to lose my shit and tell him to stop acting like a bitch...and be ready for whatever comes after that.
He's paying me rent every month and I'm using that along with my own money, to save up for this wedding at the end of the year. I just don't need my lady (whom is a fiance with a ring, and his chick isn't) to feel uncomfortable in my house. I've let him know months ago that he doesn't have to move out immediately after we get married....I thought that was his concern. But the disrespect has got to stop.
I swear, family can be a thorn in your ass when it comes to your spouse.